Dinner For One

So here it is... the countdown to 2010. It's December 30, 2009 and I'm a little over one day away from a new year, in a new country. This time last year, we were huddled around the television with our friends Tammy, Danny, Josh, Frankie... eating and drinking and watching the ball drop in Times Square and then all of the New Year's rockin' eve shows that followed. I never in my life, at that moment, thought I'd be living in a new country before the next new year.

Lighting Up The Night (v.2)

And I am. I'm here. This is the first time I've ever spent new year's eve outside of America. Ever. Have you ever spent December 31-January 1 in a country other than your own? What was the experience like? I am looking forward to how this "feels". And the fact that we have it 6 hours before my friends and family on the east coast, 9 hours before my west coast friends, is also a unique thing that I've not experienced before. Being in the new year before everyone else back home, huh, I feel a bit like a time traveler. I can report to everyone else that 2010 is just fine in case anyone is concerned. :) Here they call New Year's Eve a funny word that always reminds me of a cartoon I loved as a kid -- Germans call this Sylvester. But it's after a saint, not a cartoon cat. :) There is even something called Dinner For One, a cult classic movie in English that runs on TV here between December 31-January 1. Have you ever seen it? And by the way, I went to see a 3D film yesterday, Avatar (loved it) in original English (yay!) and well... the theater had a little 10 minute intermission. Isn't that the cutest thing ever? You could go pee, get snacks, stretch. I loved it. I've never in my life experienced this during a long film. I remember seeing Titantic years ago in Boston and we sat straight through it and I was kind of annoyed by this because the theater was packed and I had to pee during the whole last hour. So I'm in love with this German way of doing things, breaking up the film for a break. Lovely! Have you ever experienced this? (image: holly becker)

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Anonymous said…
I´ll probably move to Germany next year, and reading about your experience there, make me feel more optimist about my relocation.
thanks for your "German blog".
Paula.
Brigitte said…
Happy New Year, Holly!

I seem to recall theater intermissions when I was very young...I too wish they'd bring them here.

Now I'm off to finish anxiously prepping to host my NYE party.
Spotted Sparrow said…
Get ready for crazy fireworks! We usually stay in on New Year's, either just ourselves or with a small group of friends, and watch our neighbors light fireworks. I still remember my first New Year's in Germany. I felt like I was in a surreal war zone with people shooting fireworks out of windows and even cars!
Tonya said…
I'm from the UK and once spent New Years Eve (we call it that too!) in North Carolina. We lived there for a year and my son was born there too. Before American style cinemas came to the UK we used to have intermission during films. We used to have usherettes too!
Rusulica said…
oh yes, they do it here in croatia, too, with long films, but i am so annoyed with that because it interrupts the illusion (or we can call it magic), and i buy all my snacks before the film starts. although, i often need to pee so.. :)

btw, we call new year's eve "silvestrovo" here in croatia, too.

in my country young people, who can afford it, often travel to another country for new ear's eve - i for example went to vienna and to paris - even if it is just the country next door. we love to go to sarajevo or belgrade or istanbul.
MW said…
Funny how these things can sneak up on you. When we first visited Zurich in '07 my husband's coworker had us over for dinner. "Great apartment!" we told him, never expecting for one minute that we'd be subleasing it for a year by that time the following year. And when my laptop crashed downloading Eiffel tower photos a couple weeks later and we trekked across Paris on a freezing night during the metro strike it was because I didn't know when I'd ever be in Paris again and I couldn't leave without photos. A year later we lived in Zurich, which is less than four hours away from Paris by TGV. How silly I felt for that trek across the city! But it was an awesome adventure so I won't regret it.

I've spent two New Year's out of the country. One was in India and we spent it at my sister-in-law's cousin's swanky condo community party. It was quite a production. The thing we always tell people about is they had Russian ballet dancers who performed to The Final Countdown! Too funny. And last NYE we were in Zurich. It hadn't snowed in weeks but it suddenly snowed a wet slushy mess all over the city at about 9pm. I believe your husband when he said everywhere is like Time Square. We didn't recognize our cute little over-serious city. Bottle rockets and hand held sparklers and fireworks everywhere! It was like a war zone! Of course by the next morning it was all cleaned up and there was no sign of the "battle" just hours earlier. Very Zurich.

I hate to rain on your cuteness but someone told me the intermission at the movies is a smoke break. I wish I could remember who told me that... but it's funny how I was therefore annoyed by the break instead of taking advantage of it. It's all in how you look at things.

Cheers and prost!
Chelsea said…
I spent New Year's in Vienna, Austria 2 years ago and it was seriously the best New Year's of my life. Everyone was in the streets drinking, eating and dancing together. There were all sorts of fireworks, and fabulous decorations. And the best part, everyone Waltz's at midnight. What a fun tradition! I hope you have a wonderful New Year's even. Bonne Année!
Mary said…
I grew up in England and Germany. When we went to the "cinema" in England we always had intermissions during the movies; theatres use to have people in a uniform who came through the aisles carrying a box strapped around their neck with different treats to sell (like ice cream bars). Movies have never been the same for me in the U.S.
Unknown said…
I have seen Dinner for One a zillion times (I think). My late dad always watched it on "Sylvester". I haven't seen Avatar yet, did you like it? The intermission is also common in the Netherlands. It is also a way to generate extra income, because most people also buy a drink and snacks during intermission.
Have a nice "roetsj" into the new year.
Take care,
Marianne.
Bianca said…
Oh yes, in September of 1990 I went after finishing school and having a nice job during the summer to South America, Chile, Santiago till the beginning of June in the next year, so I spend Christmas and the turn to 1991 in summer.

It was a bit strange, especially Christmas, typical items like Santa Claus in summer temperatures or a picnic in a park.

I wish you all the best in 2010 and a lot of fun tomorrow.
Best regards,
Bianca
Dear Holly,
I love the way you write about your life in Germany. It sounds so affectionate (is this the right word?).

Actually "Dinner For One" is a childhood memory for me. Even as I was a little child I knew this movie although I couldn´t understand what they were talking about.

I wish you a wonderful New Years Eve in Germany and all the best for 2010.

Nadine
herz-allerliebst.de
Ele said…
How very civilized and logical (so like the Germans)! They definitely don't break up movies like that here in the UK, but with how long a lot of films are these days, they really should.

I've had three NYE's here so far, but they don't much differ from my old Canadian ones. Fireworks, countdowns on TV, good food- the usual. I do like being ahead of my friends and family, though- by the time they're counting down, I'm already asleep ;)
Hey Holly,

it's funny what you write about us in Germany. I am German, lived in Germany almost my hole life and has never thougt about the word "Silvester". But now when you wrote it, I was immediately thinking about the cat sylvester! ;-)

In the 90s I lived in Paris for 1 1/2 year and I wasn't at home at new years eve. It was totaly strange and honestly - I didn't like it all. :-(

Guten Rutsch, Sally
Barbara C said…
I remember intermissions during movies when I was a kid, but I think most of the movies then were longer than 2 hours long.

Love reading about your enthusiasm for your new country.
Janel said…
Happy New Year Holly! I'm a new reader, love Decor8 btw!

I remember intermissons at certain theaters here in Denver. Some also had these circular areas near the back, where smokers could also smoke, if there was no intermisson for that particular movie. Otherwise, intermissions were for smoke and bathroom breaks. And I remember ushers too! They would come thru and ask you to remove shoes/feet from the chair in front of you, etc. Funny, I'm 45, and I forgot all about that small luxury! That;s waht made going to the movies so fun as a child. It was a real experience all around!
likeschocolate said…
Happy New Year! I love that movie Dinner for One! It is hilarious! I have spent New Years in Germany and I thought it was fun because we lit fireworks, which is becoming more popular now here in the states. I also spent one New Years Eve in South Africa and counted down New Years around the world until I got to the West Coast time which was my home time zone. It was so much fun! Reading what you have been experiencing in some ways makes me realize how little courage I have. I have never had a disire to live in Germany full time. I enjoy our summers there, but am ususally so glad to come home at the end. I don't know what I would do if my husband said he wanted to go back home. I mean I speak German, but I don't think I would ever pass the test in writting it. Wishing you all the best to come in 2010 or Einen Guten Rutsch ins Jahr 2010.
Anastasia said…
Happy new Years Eve Holly - enjoy your frist NY in your new home town! i celebrated New Years on a plane en route London to Sydney once - we were flying over Germany when midnight struck and the air stewards served champagne - was lovely! lots of cheers on the flight then we all went to sleep (its a long trip....)
Tamara said…
So funny you should mention 'Dinner for one' ... it is playing on tv in the background (in Australia) *right now* while I am reading your blog!!
Angela said…
You are reminding me of some great times! I was an exchange student near Hamburg, Germany in 1987-1988 (ugh) and remember having an incredible Sylvester celebration. Yes, there were lots of fireworks. And I do remember watching "Dinner For One" the next day. Totally forgot about that one -- I haven't seen it since. Thanks for your great blogs. Happy 2010.
I loved Avatar too! What a lovely custom! taking an intermission! *sigh* sometimes, Europe is SO much more civilized! :) Have a beautiful new year my friend! all the best!
xoxo
Melis
Yoli said…
Wishing you and your beautiful family a Happy New year dear Holly. I welcomed 2008 in Beijing and I LOVED it.
Anonymous said…
At home in holland watchting the oudejaarsconference ( a comedian looking back on the year) Same procedure as every year James!
Anonymous said…
"Have you ever spent December 31-January 1 in a country other than your own? What was the experience like? "

Some 5-6 times, having winter holidays in Italy, FRance etc.
All this time we were outside with lots of local people, chatting, dancing :-)having fun, I would repeat that any time again.

"I feel a bit like a time traveler. I can report to everyone else that 2010 is just fine in case anyone is concerned. :)!

:-))))

"So I'm in love with this German way of doing things, breaking up the film for a break. "

Leider nicht.

Frohes neues Jahr!

Ana
Christine said…
Silvester und New Year's Eve. Years ago I thought everybody would call New Year's Eve Silvester. But that is not so - so I had some really irritating/funny conversations - "Who is this Silvester you are talking about?"
chiaroscuro said…
Prosit Neujahr Holly! As we say here in Austria. Hope you had a nice time!

We usually go somewhere up a hill where we have a great view over the city and fireworks. And come midnight everybody waltzes to the "Donauwalzer"
I also love to experience other countries new years eve festivities.

Intermissions are still the usual in small and old cinemas here, where they still have wooden chairs ... it has such a charm!
Traveling Mama said…
Isn't it funny how life can change so radically even when we have our "plan" all in place? In a way I think it is rather fun and exciting to dream of what could be and might be, but let time tell what will be. This is our third New Year's overseas. I quite preferred this year's relaxed celebration in the living room of friends over last year in the desert where it rained the whole time! But my favorite was in Spain- so fun to celebrate with their traditions!
Anonymous said…
They don't have moviebreaks in america? How weird!
Smbumblebee said…
Hi Holly and Frohes Neues Jahr!

Just want to say that it's funny, after 10 years here in Germany, I still have to think of that cartoon cat when I hear the word "Sylvester"!

By the way, what did you think of all the fireworks here? I have to say they do add a certain element of enthusiasm and joy to welcome the new year but I find them quite excessive and over the top, not to mention pricey and very environmentally unfriendly. The streets are so dirty the following day ..... :-(
Anonymous said…
Happy New Year Holly. This NYE was my first ever outside of the UK, and whilst the setting couldn't have been more perfect (Picnicking with my man on an island in the middle of Sydney Harbour watching the most amazing fireworks display I've ever scene) I still didn't feel as though the New Year had started until my family and friends back home celebrated 11 hours later! Isn't that odd? I've been here 3 months now but still re- calculate everything in pounds and keep an eye on what the time is in London. I wonder if it will ever change?!
Natascha said…
Happy New Year and Welcome to Germany!

As a German I, too watched Dinner for One - "The same procedure as every year" - I think I never missed it while in Germany.
I did spent
New Year's Eve 2001 in the U.S. and I remember feeling a little sad when I got phone calls from my friends and family hours before the New Year started for me.

I really enjoy your blog decor8 and I think it's great that you started a blog a little more around Germany.
Natascha
Anonymous said…
Hey Holly,

I love reading about your life here in germany and the way you explain and describe lots of things is lovely! And its always so interesting when a not-german person writes about "our lifestyle" and how they experience it. Makes me think about those things, too. I love it.

My New Years in Ohio was kinda like here in germany. I went to a party with friends. Only the fireworks were missing.. and I love them :)

Happy New Year!

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