Curtain Help?
My new linen panels arrived today from West Elm and wow, they are beautiful. And heavy! 4 panels weigh 14 lbs! With such a strict weight limited on luggage, I'm trying to figure out how I'm going to tote over 3 rolls of wallpaper, 4 panels, and a shower curtain and laundry bag. That's already 30 lbs and each bag can only be 40 lbs. And I didn't win the bag wars with my sweetie. He claimed his two bag limit for himself. :( So I don't have 3 bags, only 2... Making this extremely challenging. So I'm wondering if I should just suck it up and spend the money to ship these things to myself in Germany. Any suggestions?
And I need curtain help. It just dawned on me as I looked at my curtains that the heat registers are directly below the windowsill in my place. I mean directly below the windowsill. Here's an example. Of course, my husband suggests the practical approach. Cut the curtains to hang just above the windowsill. Oh yes, I lost feeling in both knees and nearly collapsed at that suggestion too. My husband, king of style, suggests I hem these panels to fall just above the heater? Him? I mean, this is the man who wears designer jeans and labels like Ermenegildo Zegna and Prada and all of his suits are Hugo Boss. He oozes with style and I love him sooo much so of course I am still trying to recover from this advice. But maybe this is the norm in Germany? Maybe it's me who lacks taste here. Is he right, trim the curtains? Oh my.
So I suggested shades which sent him into a near epileptic fit, I don't know why but he has apparent shade trauma or something. I'm now wondering if I should return the panels and go with white roman blinds but haven't a clue where to buy them over there.
So now what to do? I have no experience with this type of heating system and no clue how to arrange my window treatments so that I still maintain privacy at night, heat isn't being blocked in the winter, and of course no TRIMMING OF THE CURTAINS.
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Is it just slatted blinds he has a problem with, or could Thorsten deal with Roman shades?
For the record, short curtains (unless they are cafe-style, mounted inside the frame...which is another option for you, maybe) give me HIVES.
About trimming the curtains... NO! No no no. Don't even think about it.
also - you're MOVING to Germany, it's a good excuse to pay an extra baggage fee and just bring an extra bag. I guilt tripped my hubby about leaving my country for his and we ended up paying for two extra bags! =) One was full of kitchen stuff to get going in the house, the other was documents and things we didn't feel comfortable going on the container ship.
Maybe you could install the drapes higher and the problem will be solved?
If not, try creating a bishop sleeve effect. Just get a few drapery tiebacks and tuck each drapery in so that the top portion hangs over like a blouse. This will shorten each drapery without having to cut it.
Good question! Thank you for asking. When it comes to how I live I started to look at things differently only about a year or two ago. One day I was out shopping and I made a remark to my husband about how I would buy a table in the future when we move and he said, "Why not buy it today if you like it and it makes you happy?" I paused and looked at him. I asked him what he meant and he said, "You speak about buying this or that when you have this or that circumstance in the future and I want you to stop thinking so big picture and live for today sometimes!" and you know my jaw dropped. He told me so often I live with the "someday" mentality and he said someday is today.
With that 'new' understanding of myself, I started to shop differently.
So as I furnish my new apartment I am giving no consideration to children or pets or any 'future' things that we may or may not include in our life. I want children but not today and not next year. So why not enjoy what freedom we have now until all the etc. arrives.
Plus, this is only a one bedroom apartment and I think that by the time we have kids we will have a much larger apartment so I'll cross that bridge when I get there I guess.
But thank you for asking. I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from with that line of thinking Deena, I really do! I have to consciously remind myself all the time to live for TODAY and not for the potential changes in the future.
Holly
That said I'm right on board with everything everyone has said about your curtains.