{helpful readers}
i am extremely pleased to be part of a blogging community. before blogs existed, i would surf the web for bulletin boards or newsgroups in order to ask and find answers on a particular topic. mostly decorating related, of course. ;)
now that i've been blogging full-time for over two years, i could never go back to the old way of the web. blogs are the best thing, you find people who listen and like you and there's an exchange of information through comments and emails. again, not sure how i coped before all of this but man do i love it.
recently i wrote a post over at real simple where i blog on m/w/f each week, and it was to ask for help. i couldn't believe the amazing answers that came streaming in. i read through each and every single one, holding on to each word of wisdom, taking notes with pen in hand as i gazed into my monitor. if you are soon to relocate aboard or are about to, please read the comments left over there, they are tremendously helpful.
are you an american living outside of the united states? where do you live?
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When I relocated from the UK to be with my husband, I left a lot of stuff behind! it was a great time to reassess my possessions. Lot of clothing and small items went to charity. I gave away stuff to friends. I packaged personal stuff that I knew I couldnt replace. A few pieces of furniture that I was attached to. In my case, it was important to take some things with me as I was leaving for good. For a second home, I would take things to decorate, like art work. Practical things like china, linens, I would buy locally. If you have questions, drop me a line. I have moved almost 20 times in my life, different countries and continent! Good luck :)
I guess being open to new stuff, not expecting a whole lot, and being flexible are key to making the transition easy. It also helped that we moved to an area where my husband already had friends. Your connections to the area will really help you get up the courage to 'get out there' more than if you had none, so that's great!
I'm very close to my family. I didn't feel homesick until I had kids. Then it was so tough to be away from (mainly) my mum. When you have kids (somewhere down the line) if at all possible I'd recommend having them in your home country where you understand the system and have your support network in place. You won't believe how much I missed my mum, sisters and aunts when I had my first child and how hard it is when we visit NZ and have to leave.
All the best, I love this new direction on this blog!
We got rid of almost all of our belongings before we moved, though we still have some boxes and a 3-4 furniture items in storage back in SF. We came over with 6 suitcases filled with our clothes and some other personal belongings. We've just been slowly replacing some of the stuff we had (but not all, it's lovely to shed a layer of superfluous stuff).
Hope you have a lovely transition, keep up the awesome blogging!
All the best for your move!
Your blog is ab fab and I have added it to my favorites. :)
To answer your question: yes, I'm an American living in Indonesia. It's quite a big change and lonnggg trip over but it is totally worth it and I'm enjoying life to say the least.
Look forward to hearing more from you.
From Bali With Love,
http://annaelizabethpoole.blogspot.com/
To answer your question: yes, I'm an American living in Indonesia. It's quite a big change and lonnggg trip over but it is totally worth it and I'm enjoying life to say the least.
Look forward to hearing more from you.
From Bali With Love,
http://annaelizabethpoole.blogspot.com/