8 Weeks!

Tomorrow will mark 8 weeks of life in Germany, two months already! I can't believe it really. So much has been accomplished in such little time that my head is spinning. We have everything we need and I'm going to start taking German classes five days a week starting in a month or so, and my 'to do' list is shorter and shorter which really excites me. Contrary to popular opinion from the Americans I've met, paperwork in Germany, so far, has been a breeze unlike all of the scary stories I'd heard about German bureaucracy. Plus, everyone I've dealt with in business has been friendly, helpful and extremely easy to deal with.

fairy lights...

lazy sunday...

Oh I cannot forget! A driver's license! But, the license isn't such a worry as I don't drive anyway. I plan to buy a car at some point, I have my eye on a baby blue Fiat (new one), but that's so far in the future that I'm not too concerned. With gas being about $8 USD a gallon it's not really worth it for me when I can take the train or walk. And next year, in the Spring, I'm getting a bike! I am already seeing physical differences in my health and body from walking everywhere. My energy level is high and I feel absolutely great from the miles I cover on foot each day. I try to walk at least 2 miles daily but usually cover 3-4. I fear having a car will make me lazy again and I don't want that, plus it's so much better for my wallet and the environment to live without a car for as long as possible, right? Once I have a child or two, my ideas on this will no doubt change but for now, it's just Tee and I and we love taking the train and walking everywhere.

patterns

Plus our city has an amazing public transportation system that is timely, clean and extensive -- you can get anywhere via train and bus. ANYWHERE. Plus, I do so much of my business here in our district (List), that I really don't need to drive as it's so compact. Oh and another perk from not having a car -- I'm buying less because I have to carry everything home!

Books

So, 8 weeks in Germany and I'm very happy and enjoying my life so, so much. I feel at peace inside and my head is full of ideas... I feel more creative than ever! It's peaceful, safe, cozy and most of all, holds so many good memories for me as I first met my husband in this city, we went on dates here, and in this very apartment his grandmother once lived and this is where we visited her for dinners often when we were not yet married. Just yesterday, we had lunch at the place where we had our first date, which was the same day I met my husband in 1999. How can you not love a city where you met and dated your true love? Also, there are many fond memories of my husband's childhood as he was born around the corner and lived in Hannover until his late 20s. I think it would feel differently moving to Hannover, or anywhere in Germany, if I did not have these emotional ties. I may feel uncomfortable, a bit lost, or lonely. But no, this all works just great for us both.

Happy Friday!

Oh and guess what? Our boxes have not yet arrived! They left Boston end of July and now we are end of September. We hadn't heard from anyone either, so I called the shipping company back in Boston and they connected us with a company in London who now has our things. We had to fax forms and send over more money this morning but the good news is this: our things may arrive within the next three weeks! Yeah! So end of October looks promising which is great because I'll need my boots and winter coats by then. Just in time for cool weather. I didn't think it would take 3 months total, we were told less, but it gave us plenty of time to clean out our cellar and make room for the 82 boxes arriving soon. I'm just so happy everything cleared customs -- I packed brownie mix and several bottles of vanilla extract and I can't wait to break those things out and bake original American brownies for my friends and family -- they are waiting! :)

sunday morning

And one more P.S. to this post. I just ordered some things from a company in Munich called American Heritage. If you are American living abroad, definitely check them out. I ordered some salad dressings, maple syrup, and a few other things that I think my friends will love to sample. It's funny, you cannot find too many salad dressings in my region. In the states, we have about 90 billion different kinds. It's too much and stupid if you ask me to have so many choices, but in Germany it's just the opposite when it comes to most foods. Locally, we have this "Yogurt" dressing which is white and creamy with a slight herb taste to it, then we have "American" dressing which is orange-y in color and tastes like what we call in the states, Russian dressing... And I don't know, I don't see much else in the stores outside of those two dressings. I know there is a huge 24 hour grocery store downtown so I may go check it out to see if they have more options, but it's pretty much yogurt or "American" dressing. I usually just drizzle my salad with olive oil, fresh lemon, herbs, cracked pepper and balsamic vinegar anyway because it's healthier, lower in calories, and brings out the taste of the veggies, but I find it interesting that there isn't much variety in salad dressing. Perhaps Germans enjoy tasting their salad vs. Americans who usually need to cover anything healthy with piles of sauce or dressing to eat it? LOL. I'm American, I can say this. :) Oh and you know what is popular in salad? Corn! Whenever I order a salad there is this bit of whole kernel corn on the top. And it's really good on salad, if you're in the states try it sometime -- it's most certainly not traditional back home but it is in my new home and I rather like it. I can't wait to talk to you again soon. I'm quite tired tonight though... I had a very busy day out at appointments and then I prepared dinner for my husband and his friend and had to work and answer about 1000 emails (not kidding)... and I went boot shopping which was fun (I found a great pair of leather ones in this gorgeous caramel color with a small heel). But tomorrow will be a really restful day as I plan to do laundry, run to the grocery store and out for flowers at the farmers' market, and then write, write, write and answer emails! Chat soon, okay? (images: holly becker, except for bottom photo: thorsten becker)

Comments

nicoletter said…
Dear Holly, tonight I'm to tired for reading your whole text. I will do this tomorrow. But I have one question: where did you got the basket on the first picture. I'm searching for such a thing since month. Can't find one.
Lina said…
if you'll have ever any problems with the language, just ask ;) i'd love to help ^^
and welcome to germany :))
ThomasCrown said…
I don't need a car anyway, but searching for a parking place would take half an hour here in Jakobi- or Edenstraße. Everytime. So why buy a car?

By the way: The most public trains you see here (the "Silberpfeile", with orange and green lines) were built since 1998 (Yeah, for the Expo 2000).
Sydney said…
Awe, what a lovely post-

I know I'm only commenting on a small portion, but I had the same issue with salad dressing in England. I asked for Ranch Dressing, and was given a bottle of French Dressing, which is sorta like coleslaw dressing! In England they actually drizzle mayonnaise on their salad, which I find a little gross!
About a month before leaving the UK I found Newman's dressing, in glass bottles at the Tesco. I'd say to keep an eye out for those, as they have Ranch, and Thousand Island, and the American sorts! You might be able to look online for who might sell them.. (Oh my gosh, ranch + raw baby carrots)

I'm so happy for you. European public transport in general seems pretty great!
frauheuberg said…
hej holly,
before i go to bed i read your new post here...
i'm so glad for you, everything's going so well ... it's really nice, a new "home" found it, right? ... i can now imagine how much work you have since I had an own blog ...:-)... this is quite a lot of work ... but it's so much fun and you learn so many nice and interesting people ... well, i've written via flickr mail ... I also have the book "la vie en rose" by murielle rousseau ... you absolutely have to try the pear tarte... is so delicious ... ...
for now we wish you a wonderful weekend and still so much fun in Germany ...

alles liebe

ines of the ladies from frauheuberg
Unknown said…
How absolutely wonderful to hear all the fantastic news!! And I cannot believe it has been 8 weeks already.
I totally didn't even think of those things like getting a drivers license and such. eeek, but like you said, really there is no hurry to drive with transportation being on foot and public is so wonderfully easy.
Also I actually agree with how nice it is that options are fewer like with the dressing. We have such an overabundance of choices here in the states, that I tend to be wasteful at times trying this and that... It just takes the pressures off. Simple is sweet.

I just enjoy hearing all the wonderful news and again congrats to you both and welcome home :)

xo
Anonymous said…
Gee, it sounds like everything is better in Germany.
donna baker said…
It all sounds thrilling. You will have to learn to make your own salad dressings like mayo and lemon juice and roquefort cheese or ceasar dressing with anchovies and egg and lemon juice and mayo with dijon mustard. Play around with the recipes.
Unknown said…
Reading your comments on salad dressing I have to snigger! Have you tried Kaufland. Is there one in you neighboorhood?
Conserning the tax thing. I have a feeling you will probably have to file in 2 countries, cause both probably want to check what part of your income is liable for taxation in that country. Where you have to pay taxes is determined by the tax treaty. At least that is the way in the Netherlands, I think it is the same in Germany.
I hope you are able to get a German drivers lincence without too much hassle.
Nicole said…
Holly you can take the written portion of the driving test in English. You can also buy the study material for it in English too. Ask at a local driving school to order it for you. I believe the book costs around 80 Eur!! I really hope you can convince them to swap the license. It should be a blanket rule for the whole country, not a state by state decision.
Spotted Sparrow said…
Congrats on the 2 month mark!

If you find a way to convince them to let you convert your license, please let us in on the secret. English versions of the test must exist as I've seen people trading copies online.

Try Kaufhof for the salad dressing. They usually have Ranch dressing and some other American staples in the food section. It's ridiculously expensive, but sometimes you just need a taste of home.
LianneK said…
Its great to hear that everything is working out as planned. Yeah, dealing with the Government paperwork here is pretty breezy unlike what I heard before. I have recently registered a small business (event management) by obtaining a Gewerbeschein from the Rathaus. Very easy. Just show up with your passport and pay 20 Euro for a one time fee. This is the basic license you can have to do small scale business covering almost anything, including photography, food catering, buying and selling etc. Not so much for setting up a big shop though. I am not very certain but do check coz my german is pretty limited, and the Rathaus employee here are not so comfortable with English. Learning the language really does help a lot. Are you taking the Deutsch Integration Kurse as well? Haha. I have to warn you though. It is really intensive and lots of homework to do every single day! Having said that, it is the best time I had spent over here, meeting people from all over. As for the driving licence, I hope you have better luck than me. They are very, very sticky with the regulation. As for me, I am allowed to drive for 1/2 year with my driving licence (and if I am not mistaken, Americans are allowed for a year, based on date you receive your Permit) before converting them to German ones. There is a eye test (compulsory), First Aid Kid, practical and theory all in along with other documentation submission! The list was insanely longgg that I decided to stick with my bicycle, for now. All and all, not such a bad idea since I get to be fitter. But when winter comes .. arggg.

Wishing you all the best :-)

p/s : sorry for being so longg winded.
Frau Maus said…
Dear Haus-Maus,

my very first comment to your very lovely blog :) : As far as I know it should be possible for you (if necessary) to pass the "theoretical test" for the german driving license in english! An (irish) friend of us did that some years ago. Just ask your local "TÜV" or "DEKRA", they should know! ;) Liebe Grüße von Frau Maus
Allison said…
I have to admit that the driver's licence test in Germany was rather difficult, with over 1000 questions to study and new twist on multiple choice. (where answers could be A, A and B, or A, B, and C... and if you marked two as right and the are actually three right answers, then the whole thing is wrong!) However, they have the test and study questions available in English! Since I had never been to England, I did have to learn a few terms like what a "Lorry" (a truck) is and what a "built up area" (neighborhood/town) is, but doing it in your own language makes it so much easier.

I have found Cardini's salad dressing at Edeka grocery stores (as well as cheddar cheese) they have yummy flavors like Creamy Italian, Honey Mustard, and the tastiest Caesar dressing ever. Corn in salads was a little unusual for me too, but I have been adding it to mine quite often these days. Happy two months!
Juliette said…
Good news: you can take the written driving test in English! You have to pay extra to take it in a foreign language, but it's definitely possible! I had a friend here do it in Portuguese.

and if you mean the little Fiat 500 - we test drove one for fun - oh it's darling - and yet like a little race car! I love it in the sagey green or chocolate brown. My husband thinks it's fun too. =)

Sorry to hear your stuff got stuck in England. Ours did too - customs went through our crate and we had to send more money/papers/etc. But we had 2 friendly guys deliver our 50+ boxes a few weeks later and it was a happy, albeit overwhelming, day!

Salad dressing: I've had this problem wherever we go in Germany. Oddly enough, I don't like my salad soaked in dressing but, of course, my husband does. I really miss Maple Grove Farms of Vermont's Raspberry Vinaigrette and will be grabbing a few bottles this Christmas =)

Syrup: DM, or anybody who carries the Alnatura brand, tends to have bottles of Ahornsirip/Maple Syrup. It's pure, organic, and sold in either Grade A or C imported from Canada at a fantastic price. I buy pure Canadian syrup cheaper here than in the States! (my uncle makes his own Canadian syrup, so I'm picky, ha)

Glad it's all still going well!
Juliette said…
a little light blue Fiat 'works' down the street from me during the week and it has a cream leather interior. When we were dogsitting/walking I used the excuse to linger and look in the windows more - it's a doll! You should totally test drive one with T just to get a closer look and sit in the seats - they nearly wrap around you! *most cars can be ordered as automatic, which I think is so much better with city driving and traffic jams!
haus maus said…
Nicoletter - It's from a shop here called Kiwi. They don't have an online store. :( But if you like this exact one, I can go buy one for you and ship it. You can just Paypal me the total. Are you interested? I can go check the price if so and let you know.

Everyone - THANK YOU for your tips on salad dressing and the driver's exam! I'm not too worried about SD though, I like having less choice in this department - it encourages me to make things more from scratch. But now I'm going to check out some more grocery stores just for fun.

ThomasCrown - I recall when the trains were being built. I was here in 1999 and they were JUST starting to roll them out. They're great trains, I love them!

Marianne - Concerning taxes, I am researching my options as I want to do what is legal and smart!

Juliette - Yes the little new Fiats. Have you seen them in light blue? Oh my, cuteness overload. I'm hoping they come in automatic, I cannot drive standard!!! But of course, by the time I get a car I'll be looking at something else I'm sure. :) And you know what's funny? Our local Rewe just rolled out a BIO line and maple syrup was on the shelf from Canada.
nina said…
I wish you could post your love story. How you met and why you were in Germany that time. That would be a nice post on V day or probably on your wedding anniversary. I would love to know!
Jaimie said…
As several people have commented on, homemade salad dressings are much tastier and healthier. I always make my own now and I'll never go back to bottled dressings again. They taste so sweet, and not in a good way!

I love when you write about your history with your husband. Long ago I seem to recall you writing about the early days of meeting and dating your husband, and it was so sweet. Care to revisit the topic?
Carolyn said…
Much Glück with the Deutschkurs! I take one now for 5 days a week, 4 hours a day! There is much to learn and some of the sentence structure is totally backwards if you are used to English, but it's easier than it looks...sometimes! Tschuss!
nicoletter said…
Dear Holly, NOW I have read the whole text! It seem Germany is friendly to you. ;) It's nice to read, that you feel so good in this country.
Your lovely offer sounds like music in my ears: Yes I am interested and I really like exact this one (the basket)! Buying one for me would be so nice from you. If it's possible for you, please check the price for me shipping included. Paypal is no problem.
But no stress, there's no hurry.
Arabella said…
If you can't ransom the release of your brownie mix, never fear: try the excellent Nigella Lawson recipe from the 'Domestic Goddess' book or online site - exquisite brownies for grownups.
Stina said…
I think the reason for the lack of variety in salad dressings is that most Germans prefer to make them from scratch. You have these little packages of herbs and spices which you can use with water and vinegar (Salat Fix), but if my mom caught me doing that, I would get an earful! Not making your salad dressing from scratch is considered "cheating" - plus, the ready-made dressings are usually pretty unhealthy.

My two favorite dressings are some dark balsamico vinegar, olive oil, salt, pepper and rosemary or some white vinegar, olive oil, mustard and honey. I alternate between making the two depending what's in my salad.
Vanilla Press said…
Hello..I have been following your blog, & it is so interesting!
I loved this post..you seem very happy & positive & its great to read.
I am a South African living in Ireland - so I know what it is like to move countries..there is a lot involved!

I bet you cannot wait for your boxes, how exciting.
Have a fab weekend

Jas
Sarah said…
Hi Holly: such great information...two things...I have the same mug as your little white one - its blue from IKEA (I assume yours is IKEA too); and when I lived in London, corn was always an option on a baked potato which was delish by the way! (also tuna fish and mini shrimps!)

Thanks for sharing all your info...
Traveling Mama said…
I cannot believe that so much time has passed! It seems like just yesterday you were having your tag sale! When we first arrived in Spain I thought it was SO gross that they ate tuna and corn on their salads, but by the time I left I craved it!
iva yaneva said…
I remember how nervous and excited at the same time you were about your moving:) it is great that you feel good at your new home. It is also very interesting for me to kind of go through that change with you when you share the difference in the lifestyle or your first impressions :)

have a lovely weekend! xo
Anonymous said…
Is it ridiculous to propose watching a romantic movie on TV that sets in Boston while still waiting for your 24 boxes from home?
Tomorrow evening (Sunday) will be that movie on ZDF at 8:15 p.m. It's called "In Boston liebt man doppelt". Maybe a kitschy story but I guess it will show us a fantastic New England set design. I surely will take a look at it.
Iris
The one M said…
Lovely subtle colours on your photos! M
RobinBaby said…
Holly,

First posting here... I moved to Hamburg from NYC a year and a half ago. If you want any tips for anything let me know - I could write a book on it! (I even got married here to a German less than a year ago... so while you don't need that info... I have been in every corner of the Bizirksamt and DMV equivalent) Oh - and taxes - you MUST file in the US if you are a citizen but can deduct up to $80K in income by saying you live in Germany. Then you have to also file in germany and pay taxes here (except any dividend income) The agreement between the two countries is easy to find online. OK - could go on and on - good luck!
Epp said…
Delicious pictures, Holly, as always!

Good luck with the German class. It really pays off! I'm currently doing the same here in Frankfurt am Main: four days a week, five hrs a day. I'm already taking Oberstufe lessons, but there's still a couple of more months to go. But it's fun. And it's such an awesome feeling when you suddenly realize that you ACTUALLY understand what is going on around you. Definitely worth investing your time, finances and energy! :-D

I wish you all the best, and greetings from Frankfurt! :-)

Epp
Unknown said…
holly, i'm an american living overseas in germany with my american husband. i had to comment concerning your driver's license. i looked through the comments but didn't see anyone else mentioning this:

Many US states have reciprocity agreements with Germany. Based on what US state you are from (or currently registered in), if as you have a current, valid american driver's license, you can simply swap your american license for a German one, as long as you have been living there less than 6 months. I swear. This is what my husband did. No tests, no having to learn CPR, or the various metric weights of trucks on official autobahn roads. No crazy studying, not to mention the 2000 euro you'd save.

You only need to make sure you take care of this before your 6 month window is up and that the state you're registered in has the reciprocity agreement.
Unfortunately, CA does not currently have one. To my knowledge. Even though the Governor is an immigrant!

My husband and I moved from CA, but he was able to change his primary US residence address to Indiana, where he is originally from (and where his parents reside), and where they have a reciprocity agreement.

I hope this is helpful for you! Good luck.
Kassie (Heidelberg)
Belle said…
Hello Holly, reading your page makes me want to move back to Germany (I am a german expat in Italy) - I am so happy that you like it there and that you feel well. I hope your 'honeymoon' with Germany lasts and lasts and lasts.
dana said…
well, the thing with salad in germany is, that it's liked to be fresh, healthy and simple:
some very good olive oil and balsamico vinegar, fresh herbs like parsley, dill or basil, fresh pepper a little salt, some times roasted pumkinseeds or sunflowerseeds, thats it!
no artifical sauce or vinaigrett needed. thats why you cant get them in a store.
Unknown said…
I've been following you on flickr for ages and not only do I love your decor8 blog, craftiness and photography; I love your life story. I met my boyfriend, Graham, through flickr and we spoke for 2 years before we finally met. Now, I live in Sydney, Australia (after leaving friends, family and home in New York) the city of our first date and our first meeting! Leaving home was hard but I share in your excitement of experiencing a new world and setting up camp. I wish you lots of luck and happiness! Although its hard being away from home there is lots of happiness to be found in new adventures!
Amanda said…
I love your silver elephant candlestick, it's so fabulous!

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